On Wednesday, Darius’ childcare centre attached a notice in his communication booklet, informing us that one of the girls from the centre had just been confirmed with the Hand Foot Mouth Disease (HFMD). From what we understand, she had been absent from the centre since last Friday so it could be possible that she might have caught the disease elsewhere too. Still, coupled with the news that HFMD is getting widespread in Singapore recently, the cc is stepping up on its checks of their children for any symptom of the disease.
Yesterday morning, soon after I dropped Darius at his cc, we received a call from them, informing us that they had discovered two newly appeared red spots on Darius’ left sole. They were suspecting that it might be a sign of HFMD. However, believeing that those spots were actually mosquito bites since last week (as I had already remembered the locations of all the bites from my applying of cream on each of these bites regularly), we assured the teachers that these spots weren’t new and were thus unlikely to be related to HFMD. Furthermore, Darius had been behaving normally and actively all these while. Even so, they didn’t sound convinced and would still want us to bring him back home immediately. In the end, we compromised by agreeing that we would fetch him back if genuinely new spots were discovered on him or if he had developed other symptoms, such as fever or loss of appetite.
Just half an hour later, the centre called me again, informing me that there was one ‘new’ spot on the left side of his abdomen (this one was actually an old mosquito bite). Since they were already very suspicious of Darius and we were worried too, we agreed to go pick him up. Meanwhile, Darius was being quarantined from the other children in the admin’s office.
Catherine then promptly rushed down to fetch him from the childcare centre and noted that there were in fact two new spots on his sole (on top of the two old, hardly visible mosquito bites) which seemed like ‘big reddish raised bumps’ before bringing him to a GP for confirmation of his spots, as strongly recommended by the teachers. We knew that if we were to convince the centre that he was clear of HFMD, we needed a doctor’s proof. After a long wait at the clinic, Catherine and Darius finally got to see the doctor. He then diagnosed those spots as insect bites and mentioned that they were very unlikely to be caused by HFMD, since spots caused by the disease wouldn’t become as big as those spots spotted on Darius. He then wrote us a note to certify that he was fit for school for that day.
According to the GP, HFMD usually starts with a mild fever, followed by ulcers in the mouth or throat, and only after that, small spotty rashes on the hands or mouth.
Reaching home and while Darius was taking his nap (both of them were very tired after all the traveling and waiting), Catherine updated the admin on the doctor’s findings by phone. Despite the diagnosis by the doctor, she still did not sound convinced. -_-| Cat: Vigilance is good, but over-paranoid?
Later on, I headed to a neighbouring shopping mall after work in search for an electronic mosquito repellent, which was mentioned recently by my mother-in-law. To spare Darius the misery of itchy bites and also being suspected of HFMD again due to new bites, we decided to work on methods to get rid of mosquitoes in our home. We had previously used mosquitoes coils to repel the pests but the smell generated didn’t go well with our noses (and our neighbours’). Insecticides wouldn’t be a viable option too since we wouldn’t want Darius to take in any of the chemical substance, even if we sprayed it hours before he was to go inside the room.
Anyway, it wasn’t long before I located the electronic mosquito repellents, as they were prominently displayed on a shelf near the store’s entrance, labelled ‘Best Buys’. I’m quite sure we are not the only family bothered by mosquitoes lately then, no thanks to the regular rains that have been pouring down.
Reaching home, I quickly plugged the repeller into a socket in our bedroom, which happened to be near the windows. That happans to be a very suitable place for the device since that was near the likely opening that the mosquitoes have flew in from. By the way, the device works by emitting a constant-changing ultrasonic signal that drives pests crazy and forces them to leave the place. The signal is however inaudible to humans and their pets so it is harmless to us. The device also has an effective area of 2000 square feet, uses only 1 Watt of electricity and doubles up as a night light with its soft glow.
So far, we had not gotten any new bites during our sleep so hopefully this device is working as it is intended to.
Anyway, we decided not to send Darius to cc this morning, worried that he might get sent back again if the teachers were to discover any ‘new’ spots on his body again (unless maybe if we marked down and highlighted all his bites to the teachers before sending him in, but that would be too much work). We understand that the centre has to be vigilant to prevent any outbreak of the disease and ended up getting itself closed down, so we didn’t want to make things difficult for them either. Therefore, we will only send him back again from next week onwards.
If you are interested in HFMD, you can find out more here, an article from the Health Promotion Board : http://www.hpb.gov.sg/health_articles/hfmd
Blogs that I read which helped me to understand and look out for symptoms of HFMD are: Offsprings’s Blogpost, Chen Xi & Mama. (not sure why PD prescribed antibiotics though when it’s not supposed to be effective) and Angeline’s BlogPost 1 and I can totally empathized with her for this blogpost, “He was rejected“.
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hi there ,
would like to share with u how i feel after reading the post.
i do not think your school is over-paranoid , think they are really being careful .
my son had got it 3x and now 4th.
the 1st time there is fever, but 2nd and 3rd time, there is no symptom at all, only small red dot which look like mosquito bites but the sch did not realize and still accept him for 2 days and by the time we realize and send him to doc, think he might have pass it to his friend … if the sch might be more observant , think his classmate might not have got it too …
luckily i still got parents to help me to look after when he is on mc for 10 days . how can a company let the staff keep taking leave for 10 days if there is really no one to take care of the sick child . when he got the HFMD the 2nd and 3rd time, he is still as active and play and laugh and ate .
we tried to keep him as clean as possible but … quite sad , he still got it again !!!!
haizz , so i think parent need to be more responsible too .
Hi Jenny,
Thanks for sharing your experiences. I’m interested to find out more about HFMD so can I ask you some questions?
May I know for your son’s 2nd and 3rd HFMD, where were the red dots located and were they itchy? Also, what was the trigger that made you decide to send him to a doctor after 2 days?
Thanks. ^^
Hi Jenny, my comment about the school being over-paranoid is meant, “AFTER the doctor’s diagnosis that it is NOT HFMD”.
The admin didn’t quite believe over the phone even though he is certified fit. So what do they expect us to do? Bring him to another doctor to certify again til someone finds out it’s actually HFMD? That’s what I meant by being over-paranoid.
And when I told her it’s not HFMD, she went on to ask whether it’s chicken pox… come on! He was looked all over by the doctor…..must we find a specialist? I really don’t know what else to do. quarantine him for 10 days when he’s normal?
(have updated the blogpost with information about HFMD…)
hi dreamycat,
what i mean is only sharing what i have go through as a parent , because it is really better to be extra careful , u might will have the feeling in future if some of the parent are irresponsible and in the end , its the poor child who suffer and parent get so tried by taking care of the kid staying at home all day notonly a day but for 7-10 days .
hi wavesurfer
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the 1st time when he got HFMD , he look so terrible and so sick and it seems that he cannot even swollow . there is no red dot on his hand and feet for the 1st time.
for the 2nd time, we see red spot on his feet. but we ignor it ! how terrible we are because he look OK . no itchy as he did not scratch. but the red spots do not disappear and more is coming up , only very tiny and it do look like mosquito bite . we thought it is chicken pox, so we bring him to doctor and doc confirm it is HFMD …. haizz, think we are really irresponsible because we really take it for granted !!!
doctor told us , HFMD only have red spot on the palm and at the bottom of the feet , chicken pox will not have.
if u see any red spot at these 2 places, it is most likely shold be HFMD.
so the 3rd time … nothing , no fever, no itchy , still as active , drink alot of milk, eat a lot of food and while drinking milk in the car , we took off his shoe and MY GOD , saw 2 new dots again !! luckily its on sunday .. so we put him at home and we never seek for doctor and just let him stay at home for 10 days as there is no medicine for HFMD, usually they only give creams and fever medicine …
and now the 4th time ….. also no sympton at all …
IF , the school did not check properly and since my son is still as active, no one will suspect that it is HFMD and he might be the one keep passing around to his poor classmate …
its really only my thought of how i feel … hope there is no offence…
thanks
and usually when u enter the cc, teachers only check on hand, hardly check on the bottom of the feet and its 2 days that i realise the dots and yet no teacher inform me …. that why i think your son cc is being careful in checking every part of his body …
a few month ago, while sending my son to school, a maid bring one of his classmate to school and just left even before the teacher check on the little boy ! and usually i do not leave immediately , i overheard the teacher saying to each other softly while checking the boys mouth and asking each other , eh is it huh ? is it huh ? faint , u know my heart really almost sank if what if really its HFMD ? and they still accept the boy coz the maid already left … and the little boy even hold hand with my son … and the next few days i did not see the boy in the school , not sure is he sick but rcvd a notice from school that a few kids got HFMD ….
Jenny,
Thanks again for sharing your experiences. It’s useful information and I’m sure it will benefit others reading them too. ^^